The “spark” is complex; it involves emotional and intellectual connection, sexual chemistry, fun and spontaneity, friendship, companionship, etc, etc.
Sometimes we expect our relationship’s spark and connection to sustain in the same way it developed when we first started dating. When the spark starts to fizzle, it’s normal for us to feel scared, frustrated and even discouraged. We expect a lot from our partner/relationship. However, without work, the bond does not stay as strong. Many people assume that if the relationship is dull, then the love is gone. If this is how you feel, then you have to detach from the expectation that having a happy relationship should always be easy.
Below are top three reasons why you should find unique ways to connect with your partner.
1. IT REINFORCES THE REASONS YOU FELL IN LOVE IN THE FIRST PLACE
We naturally take the things and people that matter most to us for granted from time to time. We can lose sight of what’s really important and meaningful in our lives. This is why we need to remind ourselves of the reasons why we chose to be with our partner. You can do this by reminiscing about your happiest moments, visit your favorites places together and express to each other how you both felth when you first started meeting each other. You can do this during your SpicyBox dates!
2. IT HELPS YOU FALL “IN LOVE” AGAIN
Once you have been in a long term relationship, you start missing the “in love” feeling. You miss the butterflies, mystery and learning about each other. When you were falling in love with your significant other, you felt that chemical reaction, (oxytocin, i.e. “the love hormone) which is the same feeling you can experience when you start finding unique ways to connect. The “spark” is similar to a real flame. It burns out and needs to be reignited once in a while. Trying new things makes things exciting again, it solidifies your bond and intimacy. Don’t be afraid to get out of that rut, change can be good.
3. IT FORCES YOU BOTH TO LEARN MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER
You may think you know everything about each other, but that assumption is because you got lazy and forgot to keep exploring. You both are constantly evolving and there is something about each other that you probably don’t really know, understand and/or spend a lot of time being curious about. Instead of growing separately, grow together! Be curious about one another, ask out of the box questions, be playful with it. Curiosity is sexy as well and builds desire! This is why it’s important to reignite the spark and find unique ways to connect with your partner year after year.
So don’t feel overwhelmed when you start feeling distant! SpicyBox can help you bring back that flame with passion tips and unique date ideas! We will also provide flirty items! Get your first box today!